Emotional Affair
Posted by Gnap @ Mon 18 Sep, 06, 11:21PM under Ngam2 Cham2
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I know dis title coming fr me, is gonna send at least 2 persons to ER.  But chill.  It’s not so bad la…. 

2mths ago, some1 fwded a link on articles abt Emotional Affairs. My 1st thot was - irrelevance!  Then, somewhat offended, dat I shd b asked to read something like dis fwded by doesn't-matter-who.  Anyway, 2 mths later (recently), curiosity finally got d better of me (when does it ever not?!), n I went to take a peep-see of d article.  What I read, gave me a scare (putting it xtremely mildly).  I guess u can say it’s 1 of those occassions when u read somethin n go, “Gosh! We did dis!” or “dat happened!”, n then u get dis freakin feelin d article is describing a certain part of ur life!
 
Now according to dis articles (I combined 2 to 1), to know if you’re crossing the line (ie hving EA with someone other den ur spouse/gf/bf)… answer these quick questions (for some signs of an EA.):
1. Do you ask/tell each other details of your day?  2. Tell your life story to one another?  3. Let yourself relax and enjoy the other’s presence? 4. Do you touch each other in "legal" ways, like picking lint off blazer?  5. Do you pay attention to how you look before you see the other person? 6. Do you think crush-like thoughts like, "..'d love this song!"? 7. Has one of you said, "I'm attracted to you but I would never act on it because I/you are attached"? 8. Does your partner have no idea how much time you spend with this person?

How many times did you answer "Yes"?
0-1: Friendship/harmless crush.  2-4: Slippery slope. Step back.  >5:
Deep Shit!
 
Wolly warayashika masinor!!!  (not profanity in Jap.  Just gibberish gibber! Don't hold me resp. if this happen to sound like some bad word in foreign lang.)  I am in a full blown EA with TextMalaysia!!!
 
1. I'd write posts abt stuff and details of my day.  2. Wrote about my FAT story, din I?    3. Oh yah - I’m relaxed when enjoying d other bloggers' posts  4. I notice tiny lil exclam'n marks in d wrong places n I correct 'em with d same amt of tenderness I'd muster when chg'g diapers for a new born.  5. I make sure my moustache has d rite length n curl b4 I post my pic.  6. I often come across songs i think d other bloggers wud like.  Only i din know how to post a song...  7. If I weren’t married with 2 kids n hv a full time job, I’d be writing a 100 posts a day.  8. He knows. (the only correct answer :P)
 
Oklah, Oklah.  I saja wrote dis post to pull some legs [it's jes 1 of those days when ur taxed out at work, d kids r asleep, n u jes wanna write some junk, y'know] – tho the article(s) is real one.  But finally, let me very honestly say dis.  N I say dis with much conviction.  I DO NOT believe any of d 8 signs stated in d article shd b all dat hyped abt as signs of an EA.  Save for item 7, d rest r things I’d commonly do with close frens - guys or ladies alike (ok, I admit sometimes I tend to get ovrbd w mushiness, but those who know me well 'd b able to stomach dis side of me).  Whether clean or otherwise…., is all in the mind, folks.  All in the mind.

Quote: Friendship shd not b constricted under narrow-minded straightjackets of gender indentification.  Unquote.  Tho I’m sure some wud beg to differ.  But dat’s another story.

[btw, i think d above color combination rawks! don't ya think?  ;) ]



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Blindfolded @ Wed 11-10-06 10:49AM
LOL!!
Gnap @ Wed 04-10-06 06:03PM
Wei! Kasi face sikit bolehkah? :P
lhfoo @ Tue 03-10-06 06:36PM
hahaha ... u r so free to hv EA with textmalaysia ... ;).
Gnap @ Tue 19-09-06 12:27PM
If EA with ur laptop dun count ie. :P

[btw, pls take a pic of d view fr ur sgp apt balcony n post it in ur blog for me to c. Jes curious lah]
KK @ Tue 19-09-06 12:21PM
I am glad my company keep me busy enough that I have little time for this EA stuff going on .... (for my wife to see one).
Gnap @ Tue 19-09-06 10:15AM
Wah!! Acheat! I din know dat blogsite is urs. OK, next time i'll read with more attention. :)

Dear Kusanagi/Lionel: I speaka no Jap. Wakarimasen neh! (D only Jap word i know is "Henshin" or bertukar fr watching Mask Riders with me sons.) So what u type below - me no comprehendo de ne.
lionel @ Tue 19-09-06 09:27AM
gnap: Eei ??? Nihon go ga dekiru??
kusanagi @ Tue 19-09-06 09:07AM
gnap: ieh. mo iyou, wakarimas.
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